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US Open 2025
What a beautiful day to enjoy one of my favorite events in person! My daughter, her fiance and I made our way to Flushing Meadows, NY for a full day of play via car and trains. Tennis is the main event for sure, but there are the other small delights. The signature drink with collector…
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Visa Day
From July 10th, when I received my contract with AISJ until today, when I reported to the South African Consulate in New York City, I was busy! I needed to research retirement and actually retire, resign from my district, research South Africa and its history, climate, languages and regions, talk to friends of friends who…
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Beach Boys
Moving to another country for two years is exciting, but it is also hard. It means saying goodbye to good friends and family. It means long distance and long gaps in get togethers. It means time differences and phone logistics. It means being a mom from afar, which I’ve done before, but not because I…
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Portland and Vancouver, Day 17
My last full day in the Pacific Northwest. I’m ready for more adventure, but want to pump the brakes! I’m not ready to leave the kids, the beauty, the travel and return to reality. But this is the longest trip I’ve ever taken and I’m so grateful! Tonight was organizing my things and packing for…
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Manzanita, Day 16
We set aside this day to hop on the 101 South to Manzanita. The views were stunning and we pulled off at countless little beaches to hike a trail or walk by the sea. We’re both a bit bushed tonight!! Photos: 9.21.25 by LA
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Wandering Oregon, Day 15
It was a beautiful day of wandering and wondering in the wild. I found myself so grateful to mother earth for the trees, sun, sea, animals, and all that she shared with us today. Yesterday I had seen a museum of whimsy and I immediately challenged some of my friends to list five things they…
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Astoria, Day 14
Flexibility was the name of the game today! Going to sleep, the plan was that I would ride into work with G, walk the riverwalk and go to Blue Scorcher coffee shop for the hour she’d be there. We were going to come back for lunch and then head out on a couple different walking…
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Astoria, Day 13
Today began at my youngest daughter’s house, enjoying the property and beautiful flowers. She and her roommates have made it such an inviting home. It was a beautiful day with my beloved girl, and I was a grateful mom with a happy heart! Photos: 8.18.25 by LA
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Crescent City to Astoria, Day 12
My last day of road tripping. Condensing a 7 day journey into 4, the drives were beginning to make me a bit weary. But I had been anticipating my first stop just over the Oregon border in Brookings. Having missed out on Homboldt State Park the day before, this was to be my consolation prize.…
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Santa Cruz to Crescent City, Day 11
Today’s theme was Twists and Turns…the road, my schedule, the rental car. It was to be my longest day of driving and on this day, I overslept. Not sleep through the alarm oversleeping, but the alarm didn’t go off because it was set for a weekday, and this was Saturday. To be perfectly honest, I…
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Santa Barbara to Santa Cruz, Day 10
This morning began with a grocery run at the local Target. From there, a stop at a beautiful stretch of Santa Barbara waterfront. I have a huge blister from all the hiking, so it was a flip flop day and ended up being more of a day of rest and driving than exploring on foot.…
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San Diego to Santa Barbara, Day 9
I’m exhausted lying in bed trying to recap this day. It began with a bittersweet goodbye to my daughter as she dropped me at the rental car station. Driving multi state made for a very expensive rental experience, so I chose the cheapest four-door sedan. My receipt said a Nissan Maxima or similar. When I…
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San Diego Day 8
It was my last day in San Diego today, which was bittersweet. I know the kids need to get back to their routine and I have more excitement ahead of me, but I will miss being a part of their daily lives. I slept in a bit because I was wiped out after my last…
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Small Moments of Joy
Here are a few things that brought me joy today, simple pleasures that have no accompanying pictures because I just soaked in and savored the moments. A little dog striding briskly on top of the rock wall high above the bay. He was sure footed and never looked down, like he owned that pier. A…
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San Diego Day 7
I enjoyed a quiet, early ride to work with my middle daughter again. My first stop was a walk to get tea in the big bubble again because it was quite chilly. I warmed up by taking a 2 mile walk along the pier and further to scope some lunch options. Satisfied that I would…
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San Diego Day 6
Early start again today, riding into work with my daughter. From there, walked a mile to the pier while catching up with a friend by phone. Got a cup of tea and sat overlooking the marina. Boat life is so intriguing to me, though I would never want the responsibility! I had bought a Hop…
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San Diego Day 5
I’m up early out here because my daughter and her husband are pre-dawn risers. One was out for a walk with the pups, the other for a run, so I made my way down the Mission Beach Peninsula (7 miles round trip) while talking to my fellow mother-in-law, one of my very closest friends! We…
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San Diego Day 4
After an early morning walk where I met a fun group of rollerbladers dressed in yellow and dancing to their boombox as they glided down the boardwalk, Saturday brought a return of my youngest to her boat to set sail. From our sector vantage point, we were able to use the gym until her boat…
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San Diego Day 3
With one daughter out for a run and one sound asleep on the couch with the pups, I set out for an early morning 6 mile walk along the beach and through town while chatting on the phone with some friends back home I felt alive and connected. From there, it was off to Coronado…
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San Diego Day 2
The day began with my youngest pulling into port in San Diego! It was exhilarating to see her boat and crew at work! My heart was full seeing her on the bow in uniform, and I felt so proud. A walk along the pier, then back home for a stroll to my middle’s favorite bakery…
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San Diego Day 1
Morning walk on the beach,Late morning explore of town,Lunch on the back patio,Dinner prepared by the kids,Evening together on the cliffs for stunning sunset. Photos: Pacific Beach, Sunset Cliffs Natural Park. 8.6.25 by LA
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Old Friends
I met an old friendat a favorite little cafe of minein Lambertville,halfway between our two homes.We hadn’t seen each othersince last fall,but we jumped right in,catching up on work, kids,family, and the stuff of life.I am so gratefulfor this friendship,founded in 1991,teaching at the same school.We’ve each given birth to 3 kids,who had regular playdates…
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DC Open
Our yearly tradition, my oldest and I, at scenic Rock Creek Park in Washington, DC,the DC Open,a combined ATP and WTA 500 tournament,founded the year I was born, 1969.It’s one of our favorites on the tour,as it is small and intimate,and you can get up close to the players,snap amazing pictures,and even have the chance…
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Dog’s Best Friend
Proof that friends come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and forms.They are a source of comfort and companionship,a soft place to lay our heads,travel with us wherever we go, if only in our hearts,and are our greatest treasures.Photo: Henry. 7.28.25 by LA
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Reservoir
There’s a reservoir across from my gym, a place I’ve camped, raced, kayaked and swam at for years. To get to the entrance, you go farther north, turn left at the light and drive down a ways. Because I get out of class at 7:15 or 7:30, I’ve never thought to drive up there, knowing…
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Hometown Reunion
I grew up in a small town in New Jersey, where neighbors were friendly and everyone’s parents kept an eye on everyone’s kids. If you were doing the wrong thing somewhere in town, your mother knew about it before you got home! I am still friends with a handful of people I’ve known since Kindergarten,…
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Prayers
Prayers for those impacted by the massive earthquake on Russia’s eastern coast. Prayers for those impacted by the tsunami or high waves and flooding that resulted. Prayers for my newly commissioned ensign daughter, who is at sea in the Pacific, and whom I have not heard from yet.
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The Squad
Back in April 2020, it became apparent that we weren’t heading back to work and school, and that staying home and quarantining was here to stay for awhile. I was looking for a way to stay connected to friends and keep my mind stimulated, and so I dreamt up a take on the traditional book…
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You’re In My Heart
Day two of my friends visiting found us having breakfast out on the front porch with toasts to order, as well as chocolate sourdough with cherry jam brought by my friend from Virginia. We spent the morning sitting and chatting, and the dogs were in their glory! The weather had broken and it was breezy…
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Kick Off
The weekend we’d been looking forward to was finally here! Four of my favorite people staying at my house for four days! The term 5eva was used more often than a bunch of 50 and 60 something year olds probably should have! One friend drove up from Virginia and another came down from Massachusetts, both…
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Class Dismissed
If there’s one thing I’ve gotten better with as I’ve grown older, it’s sitting with my feelings without trying to rush or fix them. And shockingly, I’ve found that when I allow myself to catch and release them, they move through quickly. July 24th was one of those days. I drove up to school to…
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Never the Same Walk Twice
I walk the same basic routes,on a daily basis,but yet it’s rarely if ever the same walk twice.Sure, there’s the weather,the time of day,the day of the week,and those all make a difference.But it seems to me,that I always see somethingI’ve never spotted before,though surely it was there.Or maybe it wasn’t,and just by being observant,and…
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Give Me a Sign?
This sign made me laugh when I saw it on my walk. It’s true that my street has been torn up over the past few years due to various road projects. But it just struck me as funny to imagine signs like that popping up to alert you of upcoming issues. I sent it to…
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Homemade Pizza
Heading down to Alexandria for my great niece’s 1st birthday, my friend asked me to make time to come for dinner. Pizza and champagne, he pointed out,would be the perfect end to the week. It may not be a champagne kind of night, I warned, and said we could pivot if needed. His governmental office…
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Butterfly
Graceful, colorful,Perched on the bush named for you,Exquisite insect.Photo: Flemington, NJ. 7.11.25 by LA
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Walk and Talk
It’s our fav’rite way,To spend a beautiful day,And stay connected.Photos: East County Park, 7.6.25 by LA and JW
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Golden Chicken
Shiny gold feathers,Outlined in contrasting black,Nature’s chicken bling.Photos: Flemington, NJ. 7.10.25 by LA
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50 and Fabulous
She was dreading her birthday this year,not for the number it was,but for the pressure she felt around it,and the sadness she thought she’d feel.But it didn’t come,not any of it.She told her kids what she’d like,she planned her morning,and left the rest to her new love.The day began with hiking,alone, the way she likes…
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Cherry Season
Taut outer skin pops,Giving way to sweet, tart flesh,Summer juiciness. Photo: Costco cherries, 7.5.25 by LA
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Moody Sky
The cemetery is one of my favorite destinations,walking in the quiet, noticing the variety of headstones,finding the oldest date, reading the occasional story.There is a place at the top of the hill where I like to pause,and look down over the town,and out over the hills and beyond.On this particular evening, it was overcast,and getting…
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Pillow Puppy
It started after a haircut, a silly one off, I thought, that Spencer began this pillow game. A friend was staying over, and as we said goodnight and I walked into my bedroom, Spencer didn’t follow me. I walked across the hall to see if he had come into her room, but she hadn’t seen…
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Global Friendships
Two days after my school year let out,I traveled to Georgetown to attend a conference.The participants were 150 educators from all over the globe,and inspiring, talented, insightful speakers,who set the tone, built the groundwork,and raised the bar on educational standards.It was a week full of learning, reflecting,role playing, notetaking, talking, sharing,discussing, debating, and camaraderie.It was…
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Macy Gray
What do you listen to while you work? My workday starts the same way every morning, listening to Macy Gray while I prepare for my students. Hearing the same songs and singing along ensures that I have a familiar, predictable, and regulated start to every day, which is usually the last time that happens in…
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New Home
My baby girl is all grown up,drove across the entire US,from New Jersey to Oregon,stopped to take in some sights,spent time with her dad,got settled into her new home.Three young women,Coast Guard ensigns,beginning their careers,in a blue house,on a peaceful street,across from an elderly couple,who sits on their front porch all day,watching over them.Her own…
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Freeze
A foot massage, my friend suggested,from a place in Chinatown,something he does with his daughter from time to time.Relaxing, I thought,a perfect break from walking,and a great pre-dinner activity.Only it wasn’t.Not at all.But instead traumatic.I removed my loafers and socks,sat back in my chair,and closed my eyes.At first, the rubbing was hard,which I don’t typically…
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They Died Today
They died today.I read the news in line at the post office,and tears quickly filled my eyes.I felt like I needed to sit down,to curl up and hold myself.They died today.I wasn’t ready for the news,but I should have been.I knew it was coming,but I hadn’t practiced being ready.They died today.At 4:16 am, surrounded by…
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Sweet Baby Girl
Sweet baby girl,youngest of the great nieces and nephews,turned one last week,and we gathered to celebrate at my niece’s house,with food, decorations, baby pool, friends and family this weekend.Sweet baby girl,beloved by us all, was the star of the show,watching her brother and cousin run and play,getting handed from one set of open arms to…
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Manifestation
In analyzing the draft to this point, the latest chapter of my narrative was foreshadowed earlier on, and One had only to pick out the moments and start to connect the dots to predict this coming story arc. A cursory skim and scam might indicate that this seed was planted just over 5 years ago,…
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The Universe
If I didn’t believe before,I certainly do now,that the Universe responds and provides,is always working within and around us.The last month has been an absolute whirlwind,chance meetings, exciting opportunities,blossoming friendships, life-changing decisions.I am on a path I’ve dreamt about for years,taking it step by step, day by day,but daring to dream of this next chapter,and…
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Riverside Walk
I took a long walk along the Delaware River this morning,with an old and trusted friend.The water was dirty with the churning from recent heavy rains,the path was muddy in places,with puddles stretched out across the span,and the heavily laden bamboo stalks formed curtains before us.At times, she and I experienced childlike joy,holding hands and…
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Ice Cream Truck
Out on a walk the other night,an ice cream truck passed me several times,its upbeat, repetitive music signaling cool refreshmentto the neighborhood kids and kids at heart.I found myself giddy with excitement each round,hoping that children were hearing the sound in their homes,begging their parents for money,and running out to the truck for their favorite…
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Managing Empathy
I’ve always felt, thought and loved deeply,and have always been able to put myselfin others’ shoes to understand their perspective.At different times in my life,I’ve viewed this as gift or curse,depending on the impact.It’s beautiful to be so empathetic,but it can come at a cost.I watch and read about world disasters,nature and human made,needing to…
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Writer’s Block
Writing has always been there for me~a source of joy, comfort, strength, creativity, thinking, processing,growing, witnessing, validating,sharing, expressing, marinating,and ultimately metabolizing.But sometimes, words fail me.I have nothing to add to the conversation.Or I have too much. 2025 has been like that for me.Most recently, the events in LA upset me terribly,and then ICE came and…
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Historic House Tours
This is one of my favorite times of year, when my town offers historic home and building tours. It’s our third annual and hundreds of people come out, regardless of the weather. Some on foot and many taking advantage of our sweet trolleys, sidewalks are bustling with tourists curious to learn some history and see…
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That’s a Wrap
That’s a wrap on a school yearthat held so much…change-a new position for mechallenge-learning interventions and matching them to striving readersreinvigoration-for my teachingcrisis-financial struggles for our district…again relationships-with my K-4th gradersspeeches-pleading to the Board to save reading & math supportletters-full of data and resultsfun-parent drop off & pick up with my teamcamaraderie-with my work bestiesdevastation-65…
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Come See Me in the Good Light
Oh, I did. In TribecaWith a friend new to one of my favorite poets. I whispered,“See you in two hours!”as the lights went down. I was ready to be all in. Andrea Gibson’s poetrymoves me,inspires me,motivates me,empowers me,speaks to me. Their words,as well as their partner’s,Megan Falley,have changed my life. So this film about Andrea…
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Summertime
Easing into summertime,electrified by a week of professional development in DC up first,embracing the freedom of flexibility for day trips, weekend trips, seeing friends, doing nothing,energizing my soul with time for hobbies and interests and WIMBLEDON,enjoying cherry season, both red and white varieties,exhaling structure and constraints,shrugging off a difficult and disappointing end to the school…
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Victimization
the processing of pain began with an insistent ache in my belly,not long after sharing a story of trauma with my daughter.i recognized it to be my body speaking to me,she who has only been given voice in my system in recent years.(embodiment is such a foreign conceptto one whose mind believes it is a…
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56
We’re both 56 this year,Henry and I!We are growing old together,loyal companions to the end.Henry came to mewhen I needed him most.It was after the divorce,after I bought my “sanctuary,”and filled it with intentionality,settling into a new rhythm with my daughters.Coming, going, here, there,a way of living that nearly tore my heart out.I saw them…
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Paintings
I’ve never been an artist,couldn’t draw, paint or sketch,though I admired the talent greatly,and always had the itch.Take a class, just give a try,my people would encourage,but I knew it was no use,and so I felt discouraged.Then during a winter visit,with my 20 something niece,I sat at the counter beside her,as she composed a lemon-y…
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the little things
all the luck and little things,nothing as rich as magic beans,noted in the moment, but then let go,nothing remains to even show.why dismiss them all so quick?why not pause and let them stick?for the big things always get the stage,the joy, the sadness and the rage,but when only glancing as they arose, the lucky moments…
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SADurday
Today I am sad.I don’t need to be cheered up.I don’t need to look at the bright side.I don’t need to get busy and distract myself.Today I am sad.And I want to be.My youngest has left,pulled away in her little “Bean” carpacked to the gills with her bags,clothes, new bedding, new pillows,a case of water,…
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Opportunity
I have an opportunity,It was delivered to me today. I think I will accept it,And put the process into play. For it seems to me the Universe, Conjured, created and aligned, Just so I could explore the thing, And see what I could find I’ve always been so curious, It’s been a hazy dream. But…
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Port Side Sighting
When a morning ferry ridebecomes whale watching?Perfection!Photo: Delaware Bay. Lewes-Cape May Ferry. 5.26.25
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Spring’s Last Showing
As Spring continues to deliver its blooms and blossoms, greens and grasses, wild weather and watery eyes,It also signals a change for our clan, as A moves into his 2nd year of residency, as G1 faces more job insecurity due to federal cuts, as T scrambles to pack out after a month of deployment, as…
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Tea
Describe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life. One simple thing I do every day that brings joy to my life is to choose a tea from my vast collection and make a pot of it to enjoy throughout the day or share with guests. I drink it from my favorite…
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Too Many Tabs
“Want to do a May Challenge?” my friend texted me at the end of April. She loves doing plank, push up or dietary challenges and always tries to rope me in for accountability (or because misery loves company, as I often counter!). “Friend,” I responded, “May IS the challenge!!”May was progress checking in the form…
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Allergy Season
First a sneeze, achoo!then a runny nose and headache -allergy season!Such a reactionto a stunning time of year,but that can’t stop me. Take my medicine,and enjoy the great outdoors,reap the rich rewards!photo: my favorite tissue box at school. 5.19.25 by LA
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Memorial Day
Today I think ofmy Army colonel grandfather who served in WWII,my “90 day wonder” Navy dad who served in WWII,my NJ Army National Guard ex-husband who served in Iraq,my Army father-in-law who served in WWII,my Coast Guard ensign son-in-law who serves on a ship in Newport,my Coast Guard ensign daughter who serves on a ship…
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Ode
oh, boardwalk french fries,so salty and delicious,you complete the day! Photo: Rehoboth Beach, DE. 5.25.25 by LA
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Beach
Seagulls squawk loudlyas they circle around ourpicnic on the beach. Photos: Rehoboth Beach, DE. 5.25.25 by LA & GHC
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Officers
Cadets dressed in white,Discipline, training, knowledge,Now become Ensigns. Cover Photo: New London, CT. 5.21.25 by LA Photo: Coast Guard Academy Commencement. 5.21.25 by Paul Duddy
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Last One
She’s the last one,Closing out an era Of having “dependents,”(Though my girls are anything but). It is bittersweet, this time, And I write often to mark it, To feel it, cherish it,Be present to it. Our last to “leave home,”To graduate college, To establish her own place And begin a new life. She’s the last…
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Commencement
We arrived late at nightTo our Airbnb,And fell into bed, But my mind couldn’t sleep.So much to pack in Over the next few days,Meals, parties, ceremony, And extended family. One final drill, On the great green lawn. Cadets in sharp uniforms,None daring to yawn! It made me tear up, As it usually does, Seeing their…
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Box of Chocolates
Oh, sweet box of chocolates,a thoughtful Mother’s Day gift,a mixed delight of inner surprises,coated in the very best milk and dark chocolatesin this immediate land.I lifted your lid today,and hovered my finger over each remaining gem,admiring your array of shapesand wondering what you held within,wishing for a winner!You’re a tricky one, Box of Chocolates,because although…
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Quiet Strength
She sent me a quote today,out of the blue,about quiet strength,saying she thought of me,that my grace is revolutionary.I read it with resonance,let the words wash over me,felt them echo from within me.I didn’t deny, decline or self deprecate.I accepted her words and this gift.She knows all too wellthat I have experienced pain, heartbreak, and…
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A Blessing for Myself
May I claim my little voice,May I speak with spirit and grace,May I convey what’s in my heart,May I trust my rightful place.May I conjure opportunities, and approach with confidence,May I connect with other people, and lower my self defense. May I cross pollinate new ideas, like a curious little bee,May I communicate with others,…
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I Gave Something Away Today
I gave something away today,something I once thought was magical,meaningful,symbolic of good times. I gave something away today,and didn’t feel much of anythingas I watched it disappear. There were no tears,no heart string tugs,no sadness or remorse,no regrets or misgivings.I gave something away today,and felt settled, centered, calm.I gave something away today,with high hopes for…
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Crochet Critters
My daughter loves to create…drawing and music when she was younger,then knitting as she got older.Lately, she’s been on a crocheting kickand she spends literally hours a day at it.She’s made blankets, sweaters,hats, and more hats.But my favorites are her little critters.She sends me pictures from school,I see them on her Instagram page,I watch her…
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Spring
Flowers in my yard,Come visit me every year,Very welcome guests.Photos: My yard. May 2025 by LA
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Birthday Beer
I have several good friends at work,Two who I knew before I began working at this school,and each year we wrack our brainsand up the creativity anteto buy each other the perfect,most “so you” gift we can come up withfor each other’s birthdays.We’re almost always successful,but it can be stressful,and we’re often late in our…
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Stream
After a long day at work,where emotions ran high,I needed a pick me up,To feel fortified.I knew just the place,A favorite of mine,The path by a stream,Would be just divine.I started my walk,no airpod or phone,I didn’t want company,Just to be all alone.I took in the sounds,and noticed the sights,my heart rate came down,my soul…
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Don’t Even Ask!
Have you ever had a day,like I had last week,where everything goes wrong,and the outlook is bleak?This day could have bugged me,one thing, then the next.Was the Universe against me,Had I been hexed?But far from annoying,this one made me laugh,one thing after another,inconvenient gaffes.I sent my friend pictures,as the events mounted up,to share my misadventures,and…
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Make Room for Nature
For so long, I’ve wanted to go to Longwood Gardens.30 years ago, I picked up my mother-in-lawand headed there in a torrential downpour.She got nervous and we pulled into Wendy’s and ate chili instead.This is actually hystericalbecause she was first generation Italian Americanand made everything from scratch at home.Restaurants never lived up to her standards,but…
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Mother’s Day
I celebrated Mother’s Day as I always do,so grateful to have a mother and be a mother.It’s been two and half years since I’ve lost mine,but today as I took my evening walk,I smelled her.I inhaled her scent so deeply into my lungs,and said hello.I told her some news and how I was doing,and told…
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Appreciation
Appreciation in so many formsduring Teacher Appreciation Week…a free coffee truck in front of the school,time in our classrooms instead of a faculty meeting,a make your own bouquet station,breakfast and lunch and snacks,chocolate and doughnutsand gift card raffles from the PTO.Lots of ways I felt appreciated as a teacher this week.And then there were these…hugs…
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Silence and Screaming
“There are many days I thirst for my own silencebut walk through the desert screaming instead” ~Andrea Gibson, “Queer Youth Are Five Times More Likely To Die By Suicide,” You Better be LightningI crave stillness and peace and silence,yet my mind is screaming and streaminga busy, noisy, staticy binge,until I let my body take the…
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Fog
Fog,Murky making,View forsaking,Driving through the clustered clouds,On a lazy, hazy morn. On a lazy, hazy morn,Driving through the clustered clouds, View forsaking, Murky making, Fog.
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Wonderful Weekend
Housefull ofyoung adultsfor the weekend…meals, games, meals, TV,pickleball many times,snacks, meals, naps, snacks, meals, repeat!Lots of laughter, lots of teasing,they fill the house with their energy.Nothing warms a mom’s heart like a full house.Myyoungestdaughter andher boyfriend andhis roommate and myson-in-law. A great mixof ages and of talents,from different backgrounds and places.So bittersweet to have them…
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Voting
Do you vote in political elections? YES! It is my privilege and right! I honor that privilege and protect that right by voting. Photo: Flemington, NJ. 11.22.20 selfie.
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Somewhere Right Now
Somewhere, right now, a woman is walking on cushiony clouds, each step bouncy and alive because a first date turned into a second and a third is in the books. Right now, she texts him to say she’ll bring dinner and writes a magazine-worthy description of his choices. “I just don’t feel like a woman…
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There was…
There was the the women’s dorm,where we first met, on the 5th floor. There was the academic building,where we took all our education classes together. There was the off campus townhouse,where we moved with friends. There were the jobs we accepted,two out of the five available in a district. There were the weddings,mine in the…
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For the Kids
My heart is rejoicing tonight!After seven long months of a budget crisis in our district,after 65 teachers have been let go,after 2 supervisors have been released,after we’ve lost our 6 Class III Officers,our reading and writing support staff,and our STEM teachers,after we’ve worried and fretted,after we’ve felt angry, despondent and demoralized,after months of upheaval that…
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Friends
One Tuesday afternoon,two friends had lunch together,discussing the merits of being singleat a time when so many of their peers are unhappily married,in abusive relationships, feeling restless, lacking a voiceor making themselves small.Terrain Cafe, Doylestown, PA. 4.22.25 by LAOne bright Sunday,two friends were walking alongside each other,taking in the sights and sounds of nature,swapping anecdotes…
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Tulips
A beautiful April day,A beautiful sister to share it with,A beautiful farm in Cream Ridge, New Jersey.Our Tulip Adventure began.Fields of brightly hued tulips,Some homogeneously planted in rows,Others a mix of colors and varieties.So many varieties! More than I knew existed!Wandering the farm,Watching family photos and selfies be taken,Noting the growing buckets of Pick Your…
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Spring Break
My Spring Break from school was unusually long this year and we didn’t lose any days to snow like we usually do. Typically, the travel bug would hit me and I’d be off somewhere. I’ve spent Spring breaks visiting my daughters in London, Bulgaria and Miami. But this year, I needed something else. I needed…
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The Birds, Act II
My favorite part of Springtime,It’s a highlight every year,On my two house porches,Birds’ nests do appear!I love to watch and listen,To their antics and their songs,See them fuss and flitter,As they feed their newborn throng.Photo: 4.21.25 by LA
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The Birds
Fear of birds began as a preschooler,when I was attacked by a blue jay in my yard.I ran screaming to the back door,the jay chasing and pecking at my head.Fear of birds continued.watching The Birds on the Thursday afternoon movie,as a way too young childand always cautiously checking the skyas I left the house!Fear of…
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My Mentor
It was September 1991.I had recently graduated from college,moved into an apartment with my best friend,and was starting my teaching career.So much new, so much exciting,so much scary!Enter Nancy.Teaching the same grade level,she quickly became my mentorwith her easy smile,endless patience,and solid teaching skills.She was my heroand I watched and listenedand questioned and emulated.Nancy and…
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Baltimore
Awalk atdusk, down bythe waterfront,past the boats and yachts,near the marshes and grass,through the parks packed with people,by the food trucks selling ice cream,taking in the sights with my daughter,a special moment for this grateful mom. Photos: Baltimore, MD. 4.20.25 by LA
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Pickleball!
Somehow my brother had missed the craze,despite being athletic and loving sports.But his daughter visiting from San Diegobrought it to him and he liked it.I arrived Friday night,and after dinner he asked if I wanted to go play.I keep a set in my car, so off we wentto some well lit courts by him.We had…
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Trivia Night
We gather at our table,And order up our drinks,We get our engines revving,And prepare to think, think, think. Friendly competition,With friends at tables close,Trading barbs and jabs,About who knows the most. The rounds come fast and furious,We panic and we fret,Birds and bees and baseball,It isn’t over yet!Do we have a plan?It’s certain that we…
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Easter
The morning dawned sunny,with a gentle breeze.Baskets and snacks were loaded into our cars,as my brother and I set off for the day.A quick stop at the train stationto grab my oldest,then a visit to my niece’s new home,and a walk along their backyard trailswith her husband and their dog.My oldest niece’s house was buzzingwhen…
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The Farm
“It’s smelly! I don’t want to go!” my great nephew exclaimed as he got out of the car. My niece had planned this day at the farm for all of us to gather, and knew her three year old would be delighted as he had been obsessed with farm animals since infancy. My brother and…
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Dinner
Myladies andI eat ata favorite place in town, on a random night,just because. We laugh, we share,we catch up on news and kids,jobs and pets, weekend plans, tips and tricks. We set aside this time, even when we’re busy,because nothing is more rewarding than the connection of friends. Photo: Flemington, NJ. 4.17.25 by LA
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Tension
What a frightful title!This is probably going to be adifficult, painful, angry, or worrisomepost about a tough time,a sad situation,or an uncomfortable union,you might be thinking.It is none of these.I read an amazing quotein a book the other day.Kendra Adachi, in The Lazy Genius,says, “…we can all lovingly and compassionatelyexist together in…tension.”What tension was she…
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Karim
There is a story in my area of the country that is devastating people, while also bringing out the activist in them. It’s because of Karim, a man blessed with a big heart and the gift of charisma. He enjoys people and as a server at a local restaurant, never misses an opportunity to chat,…
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Signs of Spring
Pop of color here,Star studded appearance there,Spring bursts boldly forth. Photos: Flemington, NJ. 4.6.25 by LA
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California Dreamin’
This year I chose Make Room for my word of the year, and have found so many ways to do so…from reading more books and listening to more podcasts, to poop scooping my backyard oasis to make it less hazardous, to joining a Body Pump exercise class with some amazing women (and one guy!).I’ve also…
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Beach Weekend With the Girls
Beach with the girls,These friends oh so dear,From north and from south,We meet up each year.We talk and we walk,And have much to eat,We play lots of games,This squad can’t be beat!On our third year,Of this time by the sea,We love it so much,It fills us with glee!Back at the start of COVID, I invited…
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Opportunity
Last week,I sat in a meetingwith my response to intervention teamand the mother of a young student.He had been struggling,but we had supplied him with many supports-physical and instructional and personal.He was making progress, finding success.Our translator conveyed this to Mom,who was quiet and serious.She seemed a bit overwhelmed with our collection of data and…
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The Lightness of Being
It’s been coming for some time, I can see that now.I sensed it now and then, yet…I didn’t note how the minutes became hours became days.I didn’t recognize the consistency and variations.I knew I felt peaceful, happy, content, alive, vibrant, tingly.But then it hit me, really hit me, last week.A regular Monday in March, nothing…
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Miami
Perhaps this trip will be my last,to the city of Miami.My daughter’s moving on from there,two years gone by in a flash.I hadn’t thought I’d like it much,the beach is not my scene.I thought it’d have a different vibe,but there’s so much natural green.My flight was smooth and super quick,it was so nice not to…
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Stream of Consciousness Couplets
SpringSpring, rebirth, a life anew,Shoots, buds and blossoms, too!DogsCrazy, awful, misbehaved,Their sweet faces get them waived.Hot FlashesBoil, redden, full on sweat,Menopause, you frequent threat!MiamiSunshine, beaches, spicy food,Summer clothes all brightly hued.TennisMarking play with game, set, match,Sampling Open’s signature batch.TravelCar, plane, shuttle, train,Gets me there, I can’t complain!LaundryWhites, darks, in betweens,Hate putting away when they’re clean.WalksHouses,…
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Peace and Ease
I am someone who seeks peace and easeand reminds myself frequentlythat no one can steal my peacewithout my permission.Most days that is effective,and I let go of what’s not mine to carry.Most days I can remain in equilibriumby using my wise mind.When a feeling hits me hard,I let it, without resisting.It’s amazing how fast it…
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Saturday Morning
It’s a Saturday morning,and the dogs and I have slept in,tucked beneath blankets,body to body,resting.We make our way downstairs,kibble for them, cereal for me,the tea kettle heating.I open the back door, letting them out for relief.I settle in to my book and bowl,content as always in this morning routine,when I glance up and notice Spencer,my…
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Self Narrative
These first signs of Spring, the buds, shoots, and blooms,Boldly step forward, upward, making their presence known.There’s a story they tell themselves, (as perhaps we all do),About who they are and what makes them tick.They have chosen their narrative, a story where they are lucky,And because of that outlook, they see the opportunities.Is that why…
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Motherhood
Take 1 cup of Mama Bear love, the kind where you would lay down your own life to protect theirs.Take 2 dollops of awe, the kind where you just can’t fathom these little people, full of their own thoughts, feelings, opinions and talents.Add 3 pinches of rituals, the kind that included Friday night pizza and…
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Gardens
What is this beautiful thing that’s happening? Where there has always been politeness, Laughter, shared memories, and care.There is something else blooming.Is it symbolic that we met here? Our first sister get together, No kids, no mom, just us.In a place full of blooms and growth?Why do things happen when you stop trying? Maybe because…
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Henry and Spencer
Ev’ry sunny day starts with a salutationby the East window where Henry and Spencer take in the glorious warmth.Photos: Flemington, NJ. 3.9.25 by LA
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My Heart is Broken Tonight
My heart is broken tonight,as it seems on both a local and national scale,that my beloved field of education is being attacked.My district,short 4-6 million dollars,put a vote out to the publicto raise taxes in support of our students, programs, employees, and teachers.It was rejected.The cuts that have already begun,will continue tomorrow and in the…
The Journey Inward 